Garbage In, Garbage Out
04/20/08 07:03:30 | 0
2 of my ex-clients are their own worst enemies. In one case, it might be deliberate. One of those subconscious
self-destructive tendencies that there is no cure for but therapy. If someone is out to sabotage themselves, they'll succeed and there's nothing
anybody can do. All you're going to get if you support, forgive, and overlook the behavior is to wind up on the list of things they have to drive away or
destroy to achieve the alone-and-miserable status they think they deserve.
The one ex-c, as I said, is a question mark on that score. The other definitely is not, and that's good news/bad news territory, because GOOD-it can be
fixed. BAD-if it isn't, then he too winds up in the alone-miserable-failure heap when he doesn't need to be.
The failing both ex-cs have is GIGO: Garbage In, Garbage Out. They tend to hire crappy people who come cheap - and there is a very good reason for that.
It's like...